Friday, August 28, 2015

How Perceptions Work in EFT


My friend and colleague Wendy Williams wrote this fictional story to illustrate how perceptions impact our memory, and how we use them in EFT vs. "Therapy". Printed here with permission.

Enjoy!
"I too can speak to the differences. By therapy, you are reviewing the event/hurt as you experienced it or recalled it. For the sake of this conversation, let's say my sister beat me up (broke my nose and my spirit) when I was 9 and she was 11. I have never felt close to her since and before that, we were tight. I felt victimized and felt it put a dent in all the family events/ gatherings moving forward. It was a real loss and now, as an adult, I still feel the sting and wish it hadn't happened and still view her as a bully. My stomach gets in knots and my defenses are up whenever I am around her. I feel that my sense of family was damaged/ruined from age 9 on and she is to blame.
This is my "story"... this is how I recall it and it's lasting impact is as I describe and I am sticking to it.
Therapy: Review the event and ask me to review how I felt then and how I feel now and review how to live now... ignore her? Pray for our relationship? Stay away from painful family events? Confront her? Exact apology? Take antidepressants? Take anti anxiety agents? Side with me on "of course you are hurt/damaged.... you were beaten up!"
My sister: Her "story" is bound to be different.... I provoked her? I took her favorite doll/toy/snack ONE TOO MANY TIMES! and she had to lash out! She pushed me hard and I fell against the coffee table and that was what broke my nose. She NEVER touched my face/nose with her fist. IT WAS AN ACCIDENT! And, she has felt terrible and regretful ever since, but I never accepted her apology, no matter how many times she offered it when she was 11, 12 etc. She finally gave up after a couple of years and assumed the "black sheep" role I assigned her. She never sought that role, but, there it is.

My Mom: Those two girls were each other's best friend... I HATE that they came to such an end. I was horrified to see little wendy with that bloody nose... so bent! So many tears... so much blood. I never expected the older one to do that! Punch Wendy? Really?? But, the evidence was there.... a broken nose. I tried and tried to get them to resume their sweet relationship, but after my husband left around that time, I got distracted. In my mind, both of them are good girls and I wish things had turned out differently, but I guess the older one turned ugly with her father leaving us. Ah me...
WHICH OF THESE IS "TRUE"? WHICH IS THE STORY AS IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED? Unknowable... Yet, each person here is telling their TRUTH, right?
EFT: The story is IRRELEVANT because all of our memories and experiences come through our very subjective filter... there is now way to "know" what really happened unless you filmed it and even then, the ways of the hearts involved?? No one knows. 

SO, EFT goes for the neurological charge that is associated with how Wendy recalls it... through stating and tapping how I recall it and sense it. By doing this, the "charge" is re-routed and turned down. The cortisol charge around it is recalibrated and reduced such that further recollection leaves me with hardly any "charge" anymore. It doesn't "hurt" the way it did. I still can recall the event as I experienced it... the memory is not gone... it just doesn't flare up.
This can take a very short amount of time.... I cannot say "how long" but, since it is not about review and recall and rehearse, rather it is about repair of the charge." 

The memory shift happens quickly with EFT. Once the charge Wendy discusses above is gone, the memory becomes, for all intents and purposes, irrelevant. Wendy usually forgives her sister because the accident "just happened" and relationships often get repaired and rebuilt. This is called memory reconsolidation. God is so good!

Consider trying EFT for yourself!  You will be pleasantly surprised!

To God be all the glory!  Amen.

From Wendy Langlois Williams

EFT is never a substitute for medical care. Call your personal physician should you need medical attention. Please take responsibility for all of your own emotional and physical health. God bless you!

Sherrie Rice Smith, R.N. (Retired)
Certified EFT Practitioner
Author of EFT for Christians (2015) 
EFTUniverse Instructor/Trainer

Friday, August 14, 2015

The Historical Lessons of Galileo & Christian EFT


The Historical Lessons of Galileo & Christian EFT




Here we go again!  Will we ever learn?
The year was 1633 and Galileo, the famed Italian astronomer, began his Church-imposed house arrest because he refused to step down from his heliocentric viewpoint that the earth revolved around the sun (heliocentrism).

For centuries, astronomers had proposed such a theory but no one could prove heliocentrism because of the ineffectiveness of the observation equipment of those early years – after all, observatories and telescopes hadn’t yet been invented.

Few understood the vast distances that comprised the space between the celestial bodies within the galaxies. This disbelief impeded the entire underpinning of the theory.  To make the sun the center of what we now know as the Milky Way Galaxy, stars had to be much greater distances apart than anyone could possibly fathom in those times to make this heliocentric theory viable. In that era, most people never traveled more than 5 miles from the center of their own village.

Earlier still, Aristotle had believed in geocentrism, meaning the sun, moon, and planets all revolved around the earth. Others added related ideas and, overall, not much had changed regarding celestial observations continued until the 13th century when Thomas Aquinas helped the Church adopt these geocentric theories.  Aquinas called the universe “God-ordained and man-centered” and the Church expounded the glory of God based on how the sky looked with our earth the center of the known universe. Geocentrism was now an officially sanctioned Church theory.

However, in the 15th century, Nicholas Copernicus made a study of the nighttime sky, discussing ways to understand and update all the old theories of just how the universe really did work with the aid of his university professor. While many of Copernicus’s theories in the end proved incorrect, he did finally understand that God’s universe was indeed heliocentric, meaning the planets revolved around the much- larger sun, pushing our now-little earth out of the center of it all. It was still just a theory though.

Once the telescope was invented in the early 17th century, science began to really kick into gear. Things never before seen literally came into focus!

In the end however it all led to Galileo finding himself under Church house arrest for advancing the theory of heliocentrism.  Some say the Church hierarchy was upset because Galileo expounded the theory as truth vs. theory since astronomy still had a long way to go to prove what exactly was going on in that vast night sky. Other authorities claim the Church was angered because Galileo couldn’t prove his theory Biblically.

And of course we know that in due course Galileo’s pioneering theories were fully validated, and he’s now known as the “father of science” and, alternately, the “father of astronomy” (as well as physics).
Today, we are faced with a scientific revolution with more practical applications embodying the similarly “un-seeable” Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) -- and once again, the Church risks being on the wrong side of groundbreaking science. John Polkinghorne, a British physicist turned Anglican priest whose discoveries have sparked a revolution in quantum physics, says that religion -- referring to Christianity -- and science are not at odds with each other, but simply hold views resulting from the different prism they each view the world through, and he expounds these viewpoints in over a dozen or so books he’s written on science and religion.

As a devout follower of Jesus who’s spent more than four decades in the medical trenches (and I also admittedly read quantum physics “for fun”), it is refreshing to hear someone who has lived in both camps explain how neither viewpoint is mutually exclusive and that an amalgam of both disciplines needs be incorporated into our life if we are to experience the most comprehensive degree of truth during our sojourn on this planet.

In my experience during the past 5 years, I have heard little from Christianity but argument and rebuttal against EFT -- the arguments varying from “that is simply New Age stuff” to “EFT is from satan” (lower case intentional!), to “that looks too weird and surely you cannot expect something so simple to actually work.”

 EFT has deep seated, in-depth scientific underpinnings, with now hundreds of scientific studies under its belt completed by major universities around the world, and yet few Christians are taking the time to learn about this new healing resource and how it works.
So the question looms….are we, the Church, once again “pulling a Galileo?” Are we dismissing a scientific discovery because it requires too much effort to understand, or we’re too busy to be bothered, or we think it is earthly science once again trying to pull the wool over our heavenly Christian eyes?

I don’t know the answer just yet to this question, but it would surely be a tragedy if the Church again, a second time, stuck its head in the sand and ignored what has the potential to change history as we know it – both scientifically and theologically.

Jesus told us that greater things would we do than He did saying , “Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I am going to the Father” (John 15:20).

EFT has a huge capacity for healing, both emotionally and physically.  Its other hallmark is almost always that healing forgiveness flows in like a river during and after a session, resulting in a restoration to one’s very soul!

Jesus’ main teaching, as outlined in the Great Commandment (Matt. 22:34-40, Mark 12:28-34) was love. Forgiveness must come before love can enter in any damaged relationship. We are all called into communion with each other. We are relational beings. God comes first; neighbor comes second; we are last. EFT repairs the vertical relationship with our God through a thorough clearing of old condemnations our subconscious is stuck on that are causing us to feel separated from Him, allowing us to then more fully confess and repent of our sins, releasing blessed restoration. Many of our negative emotions are rooted in sin  and these emerge and are readily dealt with while tapping. Once we are right with God, God repairs the relationship with our family and friends through the tapping process and its unique and gentle-but-effective power to root out and deliver us from these subconscious blocks of ours.

EFT fits Christianity like a glove! Everything it proposes and claims to do are in direct line with Scripture and all of Jesus’ teaching to us to do good and to love one another. There is nothing within EFT that is anathema to Christianity -- and here I mean Christian EFT teaches that God heals and He receives all the glory and honor and praise for that healing. In fact, Christian EFT supports a right to healing delivered straight from our Lord Jesus!  

Speaking as a fellow American, the Church in this country has no need for purchasing worn, second- hand shoes or day-old bread most of the time (obviously Jesus told us the poor would always be with us, and there are some who do truly need these resources – Mark 14:7), but all American Christians DO need stress relief. Our exhausting, uber- connected digital age has resulted in us being  overburdened by our goods as well as altogether too many activities and perceived obligations.
And EFT is the answer to this overburdening. It is a tool that will keep us healthy and working for the Kingdom until the moment Jesus takes us home to heaven with Him.

The New Age world has claimed EFT as its own, but beyond the science involved, they give the credit for the resulting healing to themselves or “the universe.” As Christians, we know there is instead only one Healer -- He is the Almighty God, King of the Universe, our Creator, our Savior, and our Advocate. Jesus made restoring the sick one of His prime attention- getting activities during His earthly ministry – after all, people  snapped to attention when He performed His miraculous healings!

In these latter days, God has delivered to us a tool to wake up this world to the realities of an amazing God who really wants to be intimately involved in a relationship with us. It is time we Christians take EFT back from the enemy’s camp, adopting it into the Church where it originated from the beginning of time with our Savior God, the One who made our bodies, including the unique aspects of our physiology that respond to EFT’s gentle techniques (“…for I am fearfully and wonderfully made” Psalm  139:14).

In 1992, Pope John Paul II formally acknowledged in a speech that the Church had erred in condemning Galileo for his assertion that heliocentrism was how God created the universe. Gosh, it “only” took Rome 359 years to catch up to by-then long-established science!

Please join me in praying that the Church in some fashion or manner awakens to what God has now handed us. EFT is an amazing 21st century tool for the healing of God’s people. It will change how we minister as it will also change how we evangelize. Fellow Believers, let’s not make another decades (or centuries!) too-late mistake!

Remember, to take full responsibilty for your emotional health. 

Contact me at EFTforChristians@gmail.com to make an appointment to tap!



by Sherrie Rice Smith, R.N. (Retired)
Certified EFT Practitioner
Author of EFT for Christians (2015)
EFTforChristians.com

Friday, August 7, 2015

We Must Remember!

Jeremy Camp's song We Must Remember is a great reminder that God died once and for all for us!  He has tossed our sins as far as the east is from the west - He remembers them no more!

EFT is a process that God uses to make us forget our confessed sins and move on to do the job He ordained for us to do for His Kingdom before we were born!

Remember, satan condemns; the Holy Spirit convicts.

If you have confessed your sin, including those bad habits, hatred, anger, etc., and still they plague you and you cannot seem to move beyond it, conquering the behavior, remember it is satan messing with you.

Try EFT - God is faithful to make us more and more in His image if we just use the processes and mechanisms He laid out for us to use.

Here is Jeremy's song for your enjoyment!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCd-OMusBaM

For more information, go to www.EFTforChristians.com .  To schedule a free 15 minute EFT consultation to see if Christian EFT is right for you, or for a list of available Christian practitioners, email me at EFTforChristians@gmail.com .

For a copy of my new book EFT for Christians, either order from Amazon.com, or go to my EFTforChristians.com website and click on the Paypal button to take you to a payment page. I will ship the book shortly. Thank you!

Always remember to take complete responsibility for your own emotional and physical health and well-being.

I tap for Jesus!
Sherrie Rice Smith

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Thanksgiving and Christian EFT

Anytime we tap, we tap from a negative perspective. It's the way EFT works best.

Tapping positively is simply giving yourself a pep talk. It rarely works.

As Christians; however, there is ONE time you can tap positively.

When we are giving God thanks for all the blessings received.

There are something like 88 Thanksgiving verses in the Bible.

God likes to hear His children thank Him for what He has given them.

So, if you insist on tapping on the positive, pick out your favorite thanksgiving verses, and tap while you recite them, adding in specific prayers for the special things in your life that God has given you and ones that you appreciate!

Some thanksgiving verse suggestions:  1 Thessalonians 5:18, Colossians 3:17, Ephesians 5:20, James 1:17,  Colossians 4:2, Psalm 95:2, Isaiah 12:4-5, 1 Chronicles 29:13, Psalm 100:4, & Philippians 4:6.



Remember, to take full responsibilty for your emotional health. 

Contact me at EFTforChristians@gmail.com to make an appointment to tap!



by Sherrie Rice Smith, R.N. (Retired)
Certified EFT Practitioner
Author of EFT for Christians (2015)
EFTforChristians.com